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"Becoming an Adult" Book Review
Daniel Crosby • November 11, 2024
Here’s another Dr. Henry Cloud book for you. “Becoming an Adult.” Dr. Cloud begins with some psychology on growth and maturity and why we do what we do. He then dives into the theology of what it means to live out our purpose in life as someone of the Christian faith.
Spoiler Alert: Living out your purpose doesn’t mean living in your childhood bedroom and playing video games at 29 years old.
Dr. Cloud talks about issues involving authority, separating from childhood, owning your own beliefs, decision making, and even self-discipline.
As always, his books are full of anecdotes to keep you interested and the other good thing about this book? It’s length. It’s short and easy to read…for that son or daughter who is struggling to thrive right now. It’s only 200 pages.
If you or someone you know is wrestling with adulthood or lack thereof then give it a listen or a read. It might not just give you information (something we have no lack of these days). It may give you inspiration to get up and get started on the life God has planned for you.
“Becoming an Adult” by Dr. Henry Cloud.
“My Life and Work” by Henry Ford is the autobiography by the famed automaker. Yes, that Ford, like the one in your driveway. Why read this one? One, I’m obsessed with learning. Two, I read things that are interesting to me. Three, I want to be successful and not waste this life God gave me. One way I can succeed is from learning from interesting people who succeeded in the past. Success is relative, and while I don’t want to start a car company, I do want my life to have an impact in some way. Henry Ford’s life and work were fascinating. Three things I learned: 1. Ford had an attitude of persistence. He kept going until he found what worked. Setbacks are not failures, just opportunities to try again. 2. Ford knew that people mattered. While known for his radical and maybe even perfectionistic efficiency when it came to inventing the assembly line, he never lost sight of the value that individual workers have in making that system work. 3. Ford believed in service above profit. He knew that if he gave the customer a good product at a fair price and treated them well then the profits would take care of themselves. What all could we accomplish if we simply lived and worked by those 3 principles?
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So if you work in corporate America and have to lead or attend meetings, then this book is a must read for you. Do yourself in those you work with a favor and read it today. If you have ever attended a meeting and thought to yourself, “I am bored out of my mind and this could have easily been done in a short email,” then read this book and you will be entertained. “Death by Meeting” by Patrick Lencioni is a phenomenal read. I love the way he writes because he takes what could’ve been a really boring step-by-step business book and he creates a narrative fable in which he teaches us. As I was reading the book, I couldn’t help but think to myself, “Yep, that’s why those meetings were so terrible for all those years.” And when I say that, I am pointing a finger back at myself because I helped lead some of those meetings. Most people don’t want to change and most people like the status quo in their comfort. Changing the way you do meetings at your organization is going to create some friction and take some work, but the reward for it on the other end might blow your mind. If you don’t know what to do, then start by picking this book up and learning while being entertained by “Death by Meeting” by Patrick Lencioni.
