"Untangled" Book Review
Daniel Crosby • September 18, 2024
“Untangled” by Dr. Lisa Damour is the best book I’ve ever read about raising girls. Fun fact: Dr. Damour recently did some consulting work for Pixar’s “Inside Out 2” movie.
If you have a daughter, granddaughter, work with girls in education or medicine, or just want to understand human development better, then this book is a must read.
It’s practical and informative, giving case studies that I suspect all parents of girls will read and then immediately nod as if to say: “Yup, that just about nails it!”
She tackles the follow topics:
1. Moving from childhood into adolescence
2. Building healthy friendships
3. Learning to deal with emotions
5. Beginning to challenge authority
6. Planning for their future
7. Entering the world of romance and dating
8. Learning how to take care of themselves
One of the most helpful sections in each chapter is when Dr. Damour spells out what is normal and when you should begin to worry about what is not normal behavior in girls. I bet every mom or dad has wondered about those questions.
So if you’re stumped or you’re just beginning to raise a young lady and are looking for a good guide then this is your book. “Untangled” by Dr. Lisa Damour.

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